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3 Steps to making your relationship with God a top priority as a busy mom. I promise, the spiritual blessings are worth it.
If you watch the news and/or read any publications, you’ve probably seen articles and broadcasts about gender wage gaps and how emotional labor women endure that holds us back. One would think the idea of the homemaker is becoming extinct because of the less than kind backlash. I know I personally have dealt with an impressive deal of unkind words, mainly from other women.
This idea of women supporting women only seems to apply if you fit a mold, from my own experience.
I’ve been watching the show Mrs. America about Phyllis Schlafly told through her own experiences and the modern feminists of her time like Gloria Steinem and Betty Friedan. During the passionate debate of 1973, Betty Fredian, writer of The Feminine Mystique and “mother of feminism,” called Schlafly, an advocate for homemakers, a witch that she would like to burn at the stake.
I think this moment is crucial to understanding where we as homemakers stand in the feminist ideology of worth. The truth of the matter is, we don’t.
If we believe that raising our children and serving at home is where God has called us than frankly this “movement” believes we are brainwashed by the patriarchy unable to make a rational decisions ourselves, which is the antithesis of what they tell the world they stand for.
So why does homemaking matter in a world that has spent decades telling you and our world how backward it is? I honestly cannot think of a more important call. The role of homemaker is not simply do the dishes, but it is a calling to serve. It’s a call to act more like the Savior. It’s asking us to not put our needs before the needs of others.A homemaker’s job is to ensure your home is a peaceful place to be. It means no arguing over dishes. When we take the time to argue over mundane things, we are bringing us closer to the Savior. It breaks a spirit of discontent when we argue or hold resentment over such simple things.
We can focus on loving and supporting each other instead of throwing a fit because your husband didn’t wash a plate. When you put it like that, it seems so silly to worry about such things.
The truth of the matter is, despite what modern feminists will say, homemaking is not a thing of the past. Truly, I believe it is more important than ever to show up at home. Turn on any news station for about 5 minutes and you’ll probably leave feeling the same way. The more we can pour into our family, I firmly believe the better our world truly can be.
In a society that is beyond broken, we could use more women turning their houses into homes. Homemaking is not about you, but it is about those around us. For me, that’s a calling worth answering.
If you’re considering making homemaking a high priority in your life, let’s chat directly.
I focus heavily on showing up at home and I’d love to chat more with you about it. We’ll talk soon.
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Wow. You nailed it 100%. When the family unit starts to crumble , a country, a nation will also in time. Study history, it’s all there.
Thank you. The most important role in the universe is a homemaker. It affects the generations to come. Make it count!! The future of every human being is dependant on it.
Shelly you are so right! The worst thing to ever happen in the US was when women entered the work force and modern feminism took over. We can see the long term impacts with every modern idea. We just get further and further from God’s truth.